What it takes for 2 to live with each others?

"Aren't ya gonna marry soon?"
"Do you want us to find you a bride?"
"When we're gonna celebrate your wedding?"

Don't get me wrong here, I will not say I am sick of this!
On the contrary, for me it shows that people who ask at least care or compliment.

But today, I had a very strange question asked;
Omz asked:"What do you think is the most important factor in the relation between a man and his wife?"
I posed for a second cause the question surprised me a bit then giving some options she continued saying:"Is it love? is it family origins? is it her beauty? is it her reactions and behavior?....etc

I thought and said:"I guess mutual understanding"; then {BOOOOOOOOOM} wrong answer!
She said:"Love!"
I asked her what she meant with "Love"; is it love from first sight? is it love due to long relation? cause of course Love is very important for any couple to get along this life, but... there are rules and limitation, also love by it self can't fix up all things; how many couple loved each other for years and when they got married they broke up!



What if one loved a girl that is walking a different path he's taking?
Can Love bridge this gap?
Can't a couple just get acquainted who have same ideals and path to take and love each other on the way?

Some differences just can't be solved or ignored with "Love"!

"How rude you are!" Omz said; I didn't say anything and left, maybe it looks rude but don't get me wrong, I really want to be with the girl I love the most, but what should I do if she don't share this feeling?
What if she is not walking the path I want to take?


Over and above:) What if one is still supporting his family? Though for this one I tend to take it easy as Allah always befrejha.

A'77777777777777; to make things even harder; today Nooran came to me and told me she found a 3aroos who's 23 years old and veiled, I didn't told her yes or no, just that we will see.

Honestly I don't know what to do, I am looking for a life full with love, yet I don't want to break after colliding with each others believes; and I don't want to step into the unknown that might be great or crucial and hard.

I believe with the saying of "Love comes with time"; as long the couple have the same goals in life; any other love form doesn't seem able to fix the differences if the paths are so different.

If one truly loves another, then he/she will wish for his/her happiness wherever and with whomever was; cause if this didn't apply, then actually love in its true form doesn't exist and was just a mere rash in nerve reactions.

Requiem for the lost ones

Waiting this Thursday night to end, strange heavy feeling seems to be overwhelming me.
Today was unpleasant for me at all :( Though, something great happened as two of my friends who resigned due to a conflict with their manager came back to work as they got another chance from the CEO, long story but what matters that it ended somewhat with the least trouble possible.

Why did my day is unpleasant then?
I guess the following points were behind it:

1. It seems I lost control of my actions, conversation somewhat, and said things maybe I should've just kept to myself.
2. Had a business meeting where we signed , will let's call it a paper to finalize a deal that might crash the company @160KM/Hr into a concrete wall! The kind of meeting where big boss from each company sign some papers and shake hands and of course get some cam shooting and unnecessary hypocritical comments and yellow smiles.


3. Following our meeting was a business lunch! continuing our yellow smiles we went to Burj El Hamam restaurant; it is a very nice one with excellent food and service; thus I felt like being punched in the face when I saw some ladies in their 40's asking the waiter for wine!!! "Hey, I said white wine not red wine!" one of them shouted. What the hell I'm doing here? I shouldn't be in a restaurant that serves alcohol in the first place no matter what! a'7777 this one sat7atni men 7ali

4. Felt enni kteer zanna'7t elyoum; you know when you say or do things that you usually don't do or say; and just seconds after, you ask yourself: "Why I said or did that?" Too frustrating, I felt I made people I care for annoyed, worst thing I could imagine to do to anybody, so how should I feel if I did it to them?


5. Felt that someone really didn't want to see me at all or even talk to me; a person I would enjoy my times just by remembering him/her; Ok it's her.

I hate when a person feels he lost control due pressure or any reason else; how come I'm writing this and listening to "The Final Countdown"? I shouldn't be doing this if I was to take the path I chose for my self! But the problem that loneliness is very creepy, and having all my friends abroad makes things even more complicated; finding new friends will help, right? Will, it's not that there are no friends in the company, but it seems once we are off working hours they have their other life, friends and activities; pushing myself to that life is not my style and will never do it.

a'777777777777777, mesh 3aref shoo a3aml? :(
Allah yesle7 el a7wal......
Ya rab